Bad Blogger

Holy Cow – was March 25 really the last time I posted?  Bad Me!  Life has sort of taken the reigns lately and I just haven’t been getting here.  First, our computer is still very temperamental.  Just when I’ve managed to edit and upload pictures, it decides to crash losing all of my work.  Secondly, my kitchen ceiling is still leaking.  It has been 4 months and several repairs and no contractor has been able to find the leak entrance.  So much for a new roof!  Anyway, we just had someone do some repairs to the siding when we were also informed that our siding was a “bad job”.  This annoys me to no end as we did a lot of research on the company we used.  They were not some fly by night operation, but during the job there were some questionable workers at my house, about whom I complained at that time.  We’re hoping that this leak is an isolated incident since this part of the house runs into another section of the roof (thankfully the only place on the house this happens).  The contractor informed us that even though the siding job isn’t that great, we should be ok around the rest of the house.  I’m not so sure, but the estimators from my home owner’s insurance agree. Once the leak is stopped, we will at least have our inside repairs taken care of by the insurance.  Telling myself “Newly decorated kitchen” is the only thing that has stopped my head from exploding during this entire nightmare.  And then there is the usual crap in life that takes over – hosting Easter, hosting other family events, events with the kids, sleep (yes, on occasion I have forsaken my blog so I can get some rest).  But, I’m hoping to be back on the band wagon now that many of my obligations have been fulfilled.  Thanks for sticking by and hanging in.

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Itchy & Red

Well, I’m still itchy and red.  At this point no one has any idea what is giving me this allergic reaction.  Earlier this week, I went to a new allergist.  After reading many positive comments about him online, my first mistake was getting my hopes up.  Because in typical fashion, this doctor told me my reaction wasn’t “typical” or “normal”.  (I think we’ve already established that none of my reactions are ever typical or normal and I really hate doctors who think that if you don’t react like everyone else, there clearly isn’t anything wrong with you or it is all in your head).  That being said, he continued to tell me that he had no idea what was causing my reaction, that he didn’t feel any tests were necessary and that he really couldn’t help me.  Oh….and he was sorry.  And I had to pay $20 to hear that (mistake #2).  It is clear that this reaction is going to be a difficult one to diagnose given the various spots it is appearing on my body (chest, neck, forearms).  Thank God for my PCP who actually cares about my well being.  Firstly, he gave me steroids so that I didn’t have to put on the mittens from scratching my skin raw.  Secondly, he thinks I’m having some sort of reaction to a fragrance, given that this all started after I used the new J&J shampoo and it is mostly concentrated on my neck and chest.  I am beginning to think that he is right.  Last night, after I gave my kids a bath, my hands were super red and itchy again.  I was using a different baby shampoo, but it, too, contained fragrance.  SO – my first step in this reaction is to attempt to go fragrance free for a while and see what happens.  This made me a little nervous thinking I was going to have a difficult time finding products, but believe it or not, I was able to find quite a good selection in a main stream drug store like the Walgreens.  I also began thinking about how much in our daily lives contains fragrance.  We are going to have to do some serious product replacement in our house. And then, a bigger thought came to mind…..what about work and when you are not at home?  You can’t even wash your hands without being exposed to fragrance.

Last night I started by purchasing the following fragrance free items: Neutrogena Naturals Face and Body Bar, Tom’s of Maine Natural Deodorant Stick – Unscented, CoverGirl Clean Sensitive Skin Pressed Powder, and CoverGirl Clean Sensitive Skin Liquid Makeup (all available in the Fragrance Free section of our shop!)  Today at work, instead of washing my hands, I’ve been using Fragrance Free Wet Ones wipes, which conveniently come in single serve packs.

I’m already a user of fragrance free detergent, but then I got to thinking…..what about my stain remover, what about my dish detergent, my dishwasher detergent?  Right now, I’m trying to replace products that directly touch my skin.  Since I am quite a sensitive person, I don’t like trying new things all at once, because if something else makes me react, then we are back at square one wondering what is giving me a reaction.  I’m also a little nervous about switching my makeup.  I’ve used the same brand for so long and because it was water based and a bit unique to apply, I felt like a complete spaz today attempting to put on Cover Girl.  I also wasn’t ecstatic about the lack of adequate coverage it offered, however, if this will help clear up my skin, then it is what I have to do.  To this day, we still don’t know why have so much trouble with my face and why nothing has ever cleared it up.  If fragrance has been my demon all along, there is only one way to figure it out……go fragrance free!

I also found that doing a search for Fragrance Free on Drugstore.com brought up a great selection of products for all different aspects of daily life – from beauty to cleaning products. So, now the journey begins to attempt to figure out what is bothering me.  Wish me luck and I’ll keep you posted!

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Thanks Johnson & Johnson

Last week, I forgot to put a new bottle of shampoo in the shower for me, so I decided to use the kids’ shampoo, which this week happened to be John & Johnson’s baby shampoo for thick and curly hair (the light blue bottle).  BIG MISTAKE……HUGE!  Now, I’ve posted before about my past/present with food allergies, but NEVER in my life have I had a reaction like this.  The reaction is concentrated around my neck , chest, back and ears, with spots also on my forearms and the back of my hands.  I don’t know why this is the case since the shampoo ran down my whole back when being rinsed off.  I hope my new allergist, whom I will be seeing tomorrow will be able to tell me more because I certainly don’t want to use another product with whatever ingredients were in the J&J thick & curly shampoo.  And I certainly don’t plan on buying anything else from J&J anytime soon.  So much for it being dermatologist and allergy tested, which by the way it says in the description of the product.

Chest after allergic reaction to J&J baby shampoo (thick & curly)

Man, does this itch!

Left arm after allergic reaction to J&J baby shampoo (thick & curly)

Right arm after allergic reaction to J&J baby shampoo (thick & curly)

Normal Sized Ear

Somehow my left ear seemed to escape any reaction.  My right ear was not so lucky.  Anyone seen Hitch with Will Smith?  Yeah, that’s my ear!  It feels like someone has a blowtorch on it and is crushing it at the same time.  Sleeping on my right side is a real pain…..literally.  You can also see where it is starting to migrate onto my cheeks.

My angry allergic reaction ear

Back of neck after allergic reaction to J&J baby shampoo (thick & curly)

See that angry ear again in this picture???

Angry, Itchy, Painful neck after allergic reaction to J&J baby shampoo (thick & curly)

Needless to say that shampoo went right into the garbage.  I get to spend the next two weeks on steroids to make this rash go away and I’m praying that the allergist can tell me anything about this reaction tomorrow because I have no idea what caused it.

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Potty Training Hell

I am officially in potty training hell.  My 3 year old, The Destroyer, absolutely refuses to use the potty.  I know, I know, I should wait until he’s “ready”, but he’s 3 and he needs to start nursery school in September where he must at least be in a pull-up working on using the potty.  Oh and did I mention the nursery school will NOT deal with poop.  If he poops, someone has to come down and change him.  UGH!.  A few months ago, I was ecstatic when he told me he wanted to wear underwear.  I thought, “Great!  No pull-ups.  Let’s go cold turkey.”  He peed his pants once and that was the end of the underwear.  He now screams bloody murder every time we try to put them on him.  Seriously.  I’ve tried everything – potty books, the potty seat, the bells & whistles potty, the reward bag, having CheezWaster (Who is the most supportive big brother EVER) go to the potty with him, having him watch CheezWaster use the potty and still my stubborn little boy does not want to pee anywhere but a diaper.  This week, there has been a slight glimmer of hope.  We found this book at the library called “Once Upon a Potty”.  On one of the pages, it tells you how different parts of the body, including the penis and butthole, are useful – eyes for seeing, ears for hearing, etc.  He loved that it showed a butt with a hole and described that your poop comes out the hole in your butt.  And when I say loved it, I mean finds it so hilarious that it is really the only reason he likes this book.  But, he will sit and read the whole things which talks about the potty, so if potty humor is going to do it, well then so be it.  I also got him to sit on the potty last night.  We have this potty from CheezWaster, who incidentally never used it as a potty (he was awesome and went straight to the regular toilet).  It sings a song when the pee or poop triggers the sensor.  It also does some other neat sounds, like the toilet paper roll sound and sings some other songs about the potty.  I was hesitant to bust this out since CheezWaster only used it to play and hear the songs, but, The Destroyer just doesn’t want to sit on the real toilet at this point.  So, last night he sat and sat and sat…..for a good 10 or 15 minutes.  He didn’t pee, but at least we got him to sit.  I’m taking this slowly since he seems traumatized by it already.  So, again tonight, we will try to sit and maybe even pee this time.  And when it gets a bit warmer in NJ, there going to be a lot of naked Destroyer butt running around.

FYI – This is the next potty book I’m going to pick up.  The boys love Leslie Patricelli’s books and the Destroyer particularly likes the funny scenes involving this baby (like the don’t beat up your brother with your toys scene in No No Yes Yes).

Oh and if you’ve got some good tips – I’m all ears!!!

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A Not So Triumphant Return

Well – I made it through vacation – without a major disaster happening.  Phew!  The computer is still in the crapper and I suspect that since my husband works on computers all day and it is Thanksgiving this week, there will be no computer repair any time soon.  Therefore, until I can get my Disney pictures uploaded and tell you of my vacation tales, go and make some pie dough cookies with your kids….or your spouse…..or just by yourself.  They are simple….and tasty…and quick.  They also make a really nice addition to Thanksgiving dessert tables or can be used as Thanksgiving place card holders.

I’ve got lots of good stuff coming.  SERIOUSLY.  I PROMISE.  As soon as I’m no longer working on a crappy, at full capacity old-ass laptop.  Bear with me friends and thanks for hanging in there!

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